Department of Youth Ministry, Diocese of Central Florida
We live in an age where sexual abuse is a reality
in our society and we as the church must deal with
this issue taking steps to protect our children (infants,
toddlers, children, and adolescents). It is believed
this policy will safeguard our children while promoting
a positive, nurturing environment for ministry. The
policies below are to be strictly followed by all
youth workers (lay or ordained, volunteer or staff)
in the Episcopal Diocese of Central Florida.
All Youth Workers (volunteer, staffed, lay people
or ordained) must complete a four hour workshop on
sexual child abuse and declare an understanding of
the material covered in the workshop.
All those who work with youth shall do their best
to pattern their lives in accordance with the teachings
of Christ, striving in all things to be wholesome
examples to God's people. Thus it is not appropriate
to have people working in youth ministry whose lifestyle
is an affront to the Gospel, for instance, anyone
known to perpetrating fraud, a malicious gossip or
someone known to be engaging in sexual relations
outside of Holy Matrimony.
A youth should never be left in the primary care
of one adult. Teams of adults (male and female)
should supervise youth activities. This can protect
youth and the adults from false accusations and
questionable situations. Furthermore it diffuses
the possibility of an adult becoming a "guru" who
thrives on the dependency of the youth as well
as an adult having to much influence over individual
youth. There should always be an adequate ratio
between Adults and youth. A ratio of five youth
to one adult is recommended as a minimum. (Always
having at least two adults at a youth event.)
Every Youth Event should provide adequate and proper
training for its team. Minor youth leading small
groups should be supervised and accountable to adult
leadership.
A minimum of two adults should be present at an overnight
activity. If the participants are both male and
female the chaperons must be both male and female.
If these conditions are not met the activity must
be canceled. It is never appropriate for an adult
youth worker who is not a family member to share
a bed with a youth. Males and females (both youth
and adult) should sleep in separate rooms at all
events and have separate access to bathroom facilities.
Experienced adult youth workers are to be included
with adults that are newcomers to youth ministry.
Avoid dropping off and/or picking up youth without
being accompanied by another adult. Encourage families
to arrange their own transportation.
At times when one on one interactions are needed,
notify another adult of the place of consultation
and with whom you are counseling. Try to counsel
in a public place such as a corner of the youth
room where you can talk privately but are still
in plain view of others. Guard yourself against
seclusion. Make every attempt to have female adults
counsel female youth and male adults counsel male
youth. A more favorable option is team counseling,
a male and female adult team counseling an individual
youth. Many times in counseling youth, issues of
abuse, alcoholism, neglect and such are raised.
We need to be aware of these issues and be ready
to refer the youth who have these issues to qualified
professionals. We also need to be sure that we
are following the legal guidelines the State of
Florida has for reporting instances of abuse, neglect
or any criminal actions.
It is not allowed to leave older minor children responsible
for the care of younger minor children. (this includes
Sunday School and nurseries). Older minor children
can assist in supervision but must not be solely
responsible. An adult's presence is required.
All adult youth workers are to refrain from giving
personal gifts or money privately to youth without
first notifying the parents and the youth ministry
supervisor or clergy, remembering that gifts can
be easily misinterpreted.
All youth events are to function with an open door
policy. Clergy, staff, parents, church members
have a right to observe any youth activity.
The youth worker must meet on a regular basis with
their Clergy supervisor (or in their absence the
Senior Warden) to openly discuss problems, accountability,
policy clarification, personal feelings and issues
that interfere with youth ministry efforts.
No adult youth worker is to date or be romantically,
sexually, involved with a minor youth in the parish.
Sexual misconduct at least can be devastating to
the parties involved and can lead to civil action
as well as felony conviction and imprisonment.
Screening of adult youth workers is mandatory. An
interview with church leaders, the checking of references,
and even an internship period are normative. Any
adult with prior incidents of sexual child abuse
may not be used in any capacity of a youth ministry
program.
These policies shall be reviewed regularly by youth
workers and as a condition of working with the youth.
A copy of these policies should be signed by all
youth workers acknowledging their understanding and
compliance with these policies. This should be kept
on file at the church.
Evaluations forms completed by participants should
be developed and are to be used after each diocesan
event in order to evaluate, strengthen, improve
and correct aspects of all diocesan youth programs.
Anyone involved in youth ministry leadership on
the diocesan level is expected to be involved in
their local parish/mission. Young people who are
not actively involved in their local youth group
will not be considered service on diocesan youth
committees.
All diocesan youth events must provide 8 hours of
scheduled time for sleep on all overnight events.
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